A Sore Thumb

Equality has always been an issue. The gender wars! Who's superior, which is the better sex, Mars vs. Venus, top or bottom, etcetera.

But let's mix it up a little bit more.

Insert; The Gay ones! ( And to be specific, Gay Men.)

The strength of Men, the charms (what?!) of Women. The best of both worlds? Or the worse from both ends? Who are they? Why are they here? Why would a person be Gay?  A choice or a force of nature? Can one just choose to be gay? Does everybody have that capability or capacity to be gay? And does it come w/ an On or Off switch? Why are they so obnoxious? If a guy is that obnoxious; he's an asshole, if a girl's that obnoxious;  she's a bitch, but if you're an obnoxious Gay? What then?

The answer is; Normal Gay!

Hey, don't get me wrong, I'm not Homophobic and I'm not anti-gay. I actually have Gay friends, one of my best friends' Gay. But what I'm against are those obnoxious, over confident, attention seeking FAGS (yes, I said it!) that just has to be "in your face!", and let everyone know that they're Gay and they're proud of it. Why does it have to be like that? I can see that you're Gay, there's no question about it, and why do you wear clothings exclusive for girls? Like what my colleague said; "Ang pekpek shorts, para sa may mga pekpek!", I can accept it if you're wearing a tank top for girls, dress, even bras! But wearing something like that? C'mon, 6'2 tall, dark skinned, heavy build, deep voice, and you're wearing super short-shorts?! 

Doesn't it bother you that you have balls and that it could pop out anytime while your wearing short-shorts?

Maybe I'm asking the wrong questions here, maybe I'm just being judgmental or absurd, but my point is, why do you have to wear something like that and why BE LIKE THAT?! And please spare me the reason "I was born this way.". No you weren't! You may have been born Gay, and there really is no way to know if the baby in Mommy's belly is gay or not. And regardless, you're still human, and as Science proved, many times now, no two people are the same. So why the fuck are ya'll following a trend? You cannot use the excuse that your obnoxious and loud and an "In your face" type of person because you are Gay and that 

Gays are born that way.

Is this some sort of defense mechanism? I  think it is...

I guess they are being loud and obnoxious because of low self-esteem...

And if that REALLY is the case, then why still do it? Why put yourself on top of a pedestal where you can easily become a target? Why become the nail that sticks out?

I guess the answer to my questions can only be given by a Gay guy, any thoughts here buddy?

Hold your comments before you call me judgemental:

I only hate the flamboyant (In all the wrong means...) ones.

To the general gay community,

I actually think people who are gay has an advantage in life. Being able to see things from their perspective should be better than just looking at it from one gender perspective.

But only if you know how to play your cards right...

And if you respect yourself enough to know that what you do and how you appear in public may directly affect how the public treats you. If you dress and act like a bitch, I will treat you as one.

-Leonard